My personal news feed on Facebook has been blowing up with pre-school and Kindergarten graduation pictures and it's been driving me nuts!
Mostly because I don't see the point.
Seriously, were you worried that your child wasn't going to pass?
I just saw a friend post this very comment beside a graduation picture of her admittedly very cute four year old son "Well done buddy!!" followed by comments from family members saying "we are so proud of you" and "way to go!".
It hasn't been that long since my kids went to pre-school.
All three of them attended various pre-schools for at least two years each.
Not one of them had a pre-school graduation.
Maybe that makes me bitter?
Or maybe it makes me relieved.
I didn't have to buy overpriced professional portraits of my kids dressed in cap and gown,
bring balloons and flowers as congratulatory gifts or have a special dinner because by golly my kid graduated from a school where the only requirement is that their parents pay a monthly tuition to send them and that they show up.
Wait, they don't actually even have to do that!
Pre-school and Kindergarten are not required.
13 comments:
I agree 100%. We didn't have preschool and kindergarten graduation when I was little. I think it's fun to celebrate milestones, but a lot is overdone in this day and age.
I agree! It seems like it started out as a cute little ceremony for kids to create their own construction paper hats and have a good-bye party, but parents and schools have turned it into an over the top event. It's a bit much.
I think kindergarten graduation kind of goes in the same category as entitlement and every-kid-gets-a-trophy at the end of the soccer season...every year. That said, my son's kindergarten was super cute, and mostly their end of the year awards. The school had the caps & gowns, so we didn't weren't asked to buy anything.
I couldn't agree more. I think celebrating milestones is great, and I don't necessarily think it's wrong to celebrate them moving on to the next thing. But a full-blown graduation? It's too much. Plus I think it creates kids who think they deserve a party just for existing. Pretty sure they're all in for a rude awakening later!
So very happy to have avoided this whole thing so far. Our school doesn't do a kindergarten graduation (just a little ladybug party) and the fifth graders have an awards ceremony that isn't even super official since it's just during the first part of the day on the last day of school.
Here's something cool that our principal started for the fifth graders though: The whole school lines up in the main hallway and each fifth grader gets to run down the hall while everyone claps them out. I think it's fun and awesome and free. =) Way better for kids than some ceremony.
We didn't have a preschool graduation...which was fine by me.
HOWEVER, my husband had a kindergarten graduation and the pictures looked super cute on his college graduation cake. ;o)
How cool is the clap out idea for the 5th graders that NaDell suggested? I love that!
Thank goodness the schools where our kids have been enrolled have never done such a thing. It's state law where I live that all 6 year olds enroll in 1st grade, so it's hardly an achievement to be promoted!
Perhaps a little bitter. My son had a pre-school graduation, but we didn't have to buy anything extra. I didn't really think it was necessary - but the kids had fun. His Kindergarten graduation from private school is this Friday - again - NO extra money. He doesn't have a graduation ceremony for his public graduation. In the two states I have lived, Kindergarten is a requirement. I think Kindergarten is a fun graduation - a sense of accomplishment for integrating into the world of scholars, facing these new changes in their young lives and succeeding and getting them excited for the even bigger and better things to come. I'm 36 and we had a Kindergarten graduation when I was a child.
I went to a Preschool with report cards and we didn't have a graduation. I got report cards in K-12. I see no point to it beyond throwing the kids an end of year party (which we had every year until 9th grade) and letting them go hog wild.
I look at my friends who have kids going through these ceremonies and bringing family from across the country to see a kid move from K-4 to K-5... Why?! It isn't really even a landmark occassion, maybe if you were going from grade school to middle... middle to HS I can see having a small ceremony with parents, but even still not having the kid's 4th cousin twice removed on his mother's side there.
One of my friend's son's, just for the record, graduation costs were 250$. It would have cost more had they bought the picture package. That is cap, gown, party fees (parents can't bring in food at their school because of food allergies), picture sitting and the tickets for the parents to attend.
Rachel, I agree with your post 100%! I DO love NaDell's clapping idea for the 5th graders. Clapping the kids out of elementary school and encouraging them as they journey into "the unknown" of Jr. High would leave a lasting impression.
I am in total agreement withyou. My daughter had a fancy grad from middle school (in the US _ 8th grade). Then from high school. Then from college. Then her Master's degree. June 1, she graduated from Law School. I am so very proud of her. These are accomplishments - well, not 8 th grade, really. But come on - pre-school? Kindergarten? Totally rediculous.
I totally agree. And, not that I think if it, I don't see many college graduation pics on Facebook. That's one to celebrate too. I'm certainly tired of the whole 5th grade graduation pics too.
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