I really like to live well on less. That's sort of my motto. We started out married with a newborn at the ripe old age of 20 and 21, part of being frugal came out of necessity. Next year, our oldest son is starting college, and well, we are going to be going back to working with a pretty bare bones budget. However, through the years, we have found out just how far we can push our budget without really feeling like we are missing out on anything. We really do live pretty darn well on less.
Showing posts with label saving money. Show all posts
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Monday, January 4, 2016
20 Things Frugal People Do some tips and tricks that will save you money!
Tuesday, November 10, 2015
How we budget for the holidays
The date never changes. I think I knew that Christmas was on December 25, long before I knew what day my birthday was on. And yet, every year, I hear that the holiday sneaks up on some people and they are left wondering how they are going to make those gift lists that their children create a reality.
We do our very best to not make Christmas about the presents or the gift lists. Our children have everything that they need. We are beyond grateful to have a roof over our heads, a warm bed to sleep in, food that fills the pantry and clean water that comes out of the tap.
As parents, we decided very early on {out of necessity mostly} that we wouldn't indulge our children's every want. We don't buy new toys at the store, heck, we rarely buy any new books {thank you library!}. The kids never beg for candy or gum in the grocery aisle because they know they won't get it.
Because we exercise restraint most of the year, we do like to have our children receive at least one item that we know they really want at Christmas.
I've been asked multiple times throughout the years, how we stick to a budget for the holidays. Well, I'm spilling our secrets!

Several weeks ago, I wrote a post about the benefits of buying used gifts for Christmas. I shared with you that we budget $50 for each of our kids' gifts for Christmas. This is far below the national average and we are totally o.k. with that.
This budget allows us to be more generous in other areas of our life. We are able to give to those in need, not just to those in want.
So, the million dollar question is, where does our money for Christmas spending come from? Well, my friends, just yesterday, we requested to cash out our Chase rewards card and by early next week a shiny new check will be in our mailbox earmarked for Christmas spending.
When we use our Chase card {it's the only one we use}, we receive points on every purchase and those points then can be redeemed for cash. Well, other stuff too like travel, experiences, merchandise and gift cards, but we almost always choose cash. Because cash. Duh.
After I deposit that shiny new check, I will be buying things with the money I deposited and I will be collecting more points. The glorious cycle continues!
I'm stretching my dollar and saving money all at the same time! {cue hallelujah chorus}
Your first step in budgeting for the holidays is to know how much you want to spend on each person and do your best to stick to that limit. I have talked to friends who don't do this and start buying from their children's wish list instead. Before they know it, they have hundreds of dollars worth of gifts set aside for their children who already have shelves full of toys and electronics.
If you buy family gifts {for your parents, siblings, aunts/uncles, grandparents}, try to set a limit for that as well. I try to shop all year long in anticipation of Christmas and buy gifts for friends and family members when they are deeply discounted.
The key is knowing your number and doing your best to be creative to stay in that budget.
Once you start buying gifts, keep track of what you bought and your spending. Because I shop all year long, sometimes I forget about the toy I set aside for my 10 year old that I picked up on major clearance in January. I take inventory of those items before I do any major shopping.
Finally, allow yourselves to be generous. I would much rather give to someone who really needed, rather than just to someone who wanted, however, there is joy in giving regardless.
Our family has two children through child sponsorship with World Vision living in Uganda. I've seen the needs in that area and I know those children can benefit from the savings I create from sticking to our budget. They have basic needs that aren't always being met. Because we are able to stretch our dollar, shop smart and use our credit card to get rewards on anything we want, we can be generous to the real needs of those living on the other side of the world!
There is no magic budget solution, but there is a magic card that will allow you to put money back into your pocket when you spend all year round. I would love to hear your tips on how you budget for the holidays.

Wednesday, October 14, 2015
Seriously easy Halloween costumes that won't break the bank
I love Halloween. It's my second favorite holiday behind Christmas. Free candy tops my list of favorite things with dressing up a close second.
It's easy to drop hundreds of dollars on the perfect costume but I'm here to show you how you can shop smart for costumes and not break the bank!
Wednesday, September 16, 2015
How to save hundreds of dollars at the salon and color your hair at home-a step by step guide
It all started when I was 15. I was out with my best friend shopping at Target with money to burn{those were the glory days!}. Somehow I ended up in the hair dye section and picked up a box.
I was walking the aisles of my daughter's jr. high a few weeks ago and man, I'm telling you, that time of life is full of experimentation with one's looks. So it's not surprise, that I started playing around and started changing the color of my hair.
I can remember only two times in my life that I have actually paid someone to dye my hair for me and each of those times I couldn't believe how dang on expensive it was.
Now instead of experimenting with my look and changing the color of my hair, I am dying my hair to cover the grey.
Either way, with 22 years of experience and probably thousands of dollars saved, I am here to offer my expertise and give you a step by step guide on how you can dye your hair at home. I promise, it's not that scary!
Friday, August 28, 2015
Garage Sale Friday roundup of my best kept secrets!
The summer is winding down, but our schedules seem to be amping up. Especially on the weekends. We are doing our best to squeeze every last bit of fun out of our summer which means less time is being spent at garage sales. I've been traveling the last two weekends, which means no garage sale finds Friday from me. I've bought zippo, nada, nothing the past few weeks but I'm dying to get back out to the sales for sure!
In the meantime, I thought I would revisit a few of my past garage sale tip posts {how to drive traffic to your garage sale, tips for the garage sale first timer, and how to negotiate the best deal} just in case you missed them.
Monday, August 24, 2015
Three different ways to create the perfect pair of jeans. Tutorial on how to make skinny jeans, dye your jeans and hem jeans with the original hem
Friday, June 5, 2015
Garage sale tips for the first timer
I have been going to garage sales for as long as I can remember. I remember picking up toys and newborn clothes for my dolls when I would stop at garage sales with my mom, and now I am picking up clothes and toys for my own kids! Every weekend from May-September {I like to refer to it as garage sale season}, you can find me shopping the sales. One of my favorite things to do is to introduce people to garage sales for the first time. If you have never been to a garage sale before but are tired of hearing about all the great deals that your garage sale friends find, then stick with me, I will share my best tips for the newbie garage saler! You will be a pro in no time!
Friday, February 6, 2015
5 things to stop wasting your money on right now
It's easy to get into spending habits and not even think that what you are doing is a waste of money. The new year is a great time to reexamine your spending habits and start making easy changes. I have five things that you can stop wasting money on and start putting some more cash back into your wallet.
Friday, October 31, 2014
Make your own foaming hand soap refill
Every year I get sucked into buying foaming hand soap at Bath and Body Works.
The promotion they run isn't that great, but they do have some pretty amazing scents to choose from and for some reason I can justify spending $4 a bottle on the soap.
I don't know why, because I can make my own foaming hand soap for pennies!
The catch is, you will need a container that has the foaming pump.
I'm using one that I had that just ran out.
You will also need only a small amount of regular soap
{this jar was bought at the Dollar Tree and would make about seven refills for the foaming hand soap bottle you see on the left}
and if you want, you can also use a few drops of essential oils.
I'm using peppermint.
Take the lids off of your soap containers,
and pour your liquid soap into your foaming soap container.
You won't need much, just around 1/3 of a cup.
Add 5-7 drops of your essential oils
and slowly
{this is key so that your soap doesn't foam up like crazy as you fill it!}
fill your bottle full with water.
Put the lid on and give your soap jar a shake.
Easy and inexpensive!

Tuesday, July 8, 2014
Cloth diapering 101 why I used cloth diapers and how I saved hundreds of dollars doing it!
It's been about seven years since any of my kids have been in diapers,
but I would like to say that I was a bit of an expert on the matter back in the day.
I had such a fantastic experience using cloth diapers with my kids that I would love to share my experience with you in hopes that it is helpful for you in making your decision.
My oldest son is nearly 16, and when he was born, my mom bribed me into trying cloth diapers with him.
She knew it was a less expensive alternative to disposable diapers and in exchange for trying out cloth diapers with our son, she bought us a washing machine and dryer.
Fair trade I thought...that is until I tried them.
I hated cloth diapers!
They leaked, they left red marks on my sons legs and they were so gross to wash out in the toilet.
I lasted only a few weeks and even then it was sporadic usage.
Several years later when I was pregnant with my daughter, I happened upon a message board about cloth diapering. I spent a ton of time researching and found that the plastic covers and not very absorbent prefolds that I was using on my first child were archaic and that things were changing.
I didn't want to jump right in with cloth diapering since I wasn't quite sure how the adjustment to having two kids was going to be, so I waited until Isabella was about 6 weeks old and we ran out of our newborn diapers.
By that time, I had done a ton of research, I knew what was working for other moms, what my stash should look like, what the investment should be and what diapers and products I should invest in.
I started off by buying a large garbage pail and two pail liners like this one for the nursery.
I needed two pail liners so that I could be washing one and using another.
I also got a wet bag like this to keep in the diaper bag.
I tried a lot of diapers and diapering systems.
By far my favorites were pocket diapers.
Pocket diapers need "stuffed" and so I bought these babykicks joeybunz hemperoo's.
These fleece topped hemperoo's are by far my favorite part of cloth diapering because not only were they thin, they were super absorbent. They also held their value well, so that after diapering two kids, I was able to resell them for nearly what I paid for them. I ended up having around 18-24 of these hemperoos in my "stash".
When I wasn't using a pocket diaper I used a prorap classic cover.
I used to have a phone number where I could buy seconds, for around $4 each.
That number still works {shocking!} but they charge $6.25 +shipping, which is nearly retail.
I also lucked out by finding a lot of these prorap covers at garage sales and consignment shops for under $1.
I may have lucked out because this company is WA based.
In case you are interested in giving them a try you can call 1-800-397-8594.
Regardless, I would highly recommend this cover.
When paired with a hemperoo {above} it made for a really slim, trim, absorbent diaper that never leaked and never left red marks on the babies skin.
Back in 2002, when I started using cloth diapers,
I met a mom named Linda who was sewing diapers for her preemie daughter.
She made these amazing all in one pocket diapers that held up so nicely and came in tons of colors and prints. I would order directly from Linda and receive personal e-mails and hand written notes from her. Linda has since sold the company, but you can still order happy heiny's pocket diapers here.
I would stuff these pocket diapers with, you guessed it, a hemperoo!
These diapers would hold up through the night and when we were out and about.
I tried lots of other diapers, but if I had it to do over again, that is the "stash" that I would start with.
I also used cloth wipes.
I made my own with flannel on one side and velour on the other,
{you can find my tutorial here}
or you can order them or just use a washcloth.
You are already washing diapers, it's easier to use washable wipes than disposable ones.
You can also find my cloth wipes washing solution in the post above.
Speaking of washing...people seem to have the most questions about washing the diapers.
Remember how I said that when I tried cloth with my oldest son, I was dipping and washing the diapers in the toilet. EWWW! So gross!
After lots of research, I realized that you don't have to do that.
Think about it.
If you use a cloth diapering service, they don't have you wash the poo out,
they tell you to just throw the diapers in the bag and then leave the bag on your porch for pick up.
I figured, why can't I do the same thing?
You totally can!
I would throw the whole soiled diaper into the diaper pail, no washing out necessary.
Sometimes I would sprinkle baking soda on the diaper and then throw it in, but this isn't necessary.
Once my kids started solid food, and the poo got a little firmer, I would roll the poo off into the toilet.
No rinsing, or dunking, just rolling.
The kids would help me do this and I think it came in super helpful when potty training rolled around.
The kids understood that poo went in the potty and that it was no big deal.
Seems like that shouldn't be an issue, but it totally is for some kids, trust me.
As a side note, remember those pocket diapers that I used?
You know how they are stuffed with a hemparoo?
Don't unstuff them when they get soiled.
Yuck! Just leave them all together.
Trust me, they will come out on the spin cycle and be clean.
Depending on how big your diaper stash is, you may need to wash diaper every few days.
I washed mine every three days in the beginning and every week as the babies got bigger and needed changed less.
The stink never got unbearable, and using baking soda occasionally in the diaper pail helped to neutralize the ammonia smell.
{FYI you can buy bulk baking soda at Costco for next to nothing!}
On wash day, I would take my bag from the diaper pail to the laundry room, dump the whole thing in the washer, add a little vinegar to the rinse cycle
{if you haven't used baking soda, you can sprinkle some in now}
and do a pre-wash on hot.
Once the pre-wash was done, I would wash them again on hot with my homemade laundry detergent of grated felsnaptha, borax and super washing soda.
Because your diaper covers are made to be waterproof they usually have a waterproof material called PUL in them. DO NOT DRY THEM IN THE DRYER!
I would usually only dry my hemparoos in the dryer, the rest of the covers and diapers I would line dry.
Sun is the best bleach {and the only bleach} you should use.
Remember how I told you that I saved hundreds of dollars cloth diapering?
Want to know how?
I bought many of my supplies second hand on ebay, craigslist and through diapering forums.
After we used them, the diapers were then sold again through those avenues.
I just checked the local Seattle Craigslist and there are hundreds of listings for cloth diapers.
The initial investment can be a bit pricey {$200-$300}, but in the end through buying used and selling, we ended up breaking even and quite possibly if I did the math, probably even coming out ahead.
{FYI The average cost for disposable diapers is $800 per year}
The only expense we had while using cloth diapers was for the washing and detergent items I used.
In the end, I think it was worth it.
Want to know what the best benefit was to cloth diapering?
Both of my younger two kids that were exclusively cloth diapered ended up being fully potty trained {even at night} by 18 months! They didn't like to feel wet, and cloth diapers certainly feel wet no matter how absorbent they are.

Wednesday, May 14, 2014
Is it dead yet? A gardening tip that will save you money!
If you are like most homeowners
{and some apartment dwellers}
the first signs of spring have you rushing out to plant flowers around the house.
For the past few years, I have planted annuals in the pots in the front and back of my house.
Sometimes they grow and bloom all summer,
sometimes they die in just a few weeks.
If a plant isn't hardy at my house,
it's probably not going to live for long!
I manage to feed all of my children on a fairly consistent basis,
watering and fertilizing plants isn't usually high on my radar.
Which is why I only buy plants from stores that have a return policy.
And quite honestly, most do,
though not everyone takes the store up on their return policy.
The annual geraniums that I purchased at Home Depot have a 90 day return policy.
Before I even left the store parking lot, I calculated the date 90 days from the day I purchased them,
minus 5 days
{because life is busy and I have to give myself a grace period!}
I entered that date into my phone with the event title
"is it dead yet?"
When that date comes, I can check my plants and know if they are in the return window.
If they are, I can take my receipt
{that you stash in your monthly receipt envelope}
and my dead plants and exchange them for something living.
Perennials have a year long return policy at most stores.
This is fantastic to know if you are doing a major landscaping project in your yard.
Some plants don't like the ground they are planted in,
the soil may not drain well, or the winter was harsh.
Regardless, the store is happy to return your plant,
usually no questions asked,
if you have your receipt and you are within your return time window.

Wednesday, May 7, 2014
How to save money on your prescriptions
We are fortunate that our family is very healthy.
We don't have any prescriptions that we fill on a regular basis
{besides the epipen}.
Because we are a healthy family, we are on a high deductible insurance plan.
What that means is that we are paying out of pocket for most medical expenses, including prescriptions.
This simple tip that I am going to share with you, is how I save our family money on the prescriptions that we need to fill.
It's as simple as calling around.
I am traveling to Africa this summer and need to complete several vaccinations before my trip.
The oral typhoid is one of them.
I spent about 20 minutes calling these 7 pharmacies to get their cash price on the prescription.
As you can see, there is a huge discrepancy from pharmacy to pharmacy for prescription medication.
Quite honestly, until we started our high deductible plan, I had no idea!
The prescribing Doctor would ask where we would like the prescription sent to, and I would choose the pharmacy closest to my house, or the one I needed to run errands to
{who doesn't need an excuse to go to Target?}

Friday, April 25, 2014
How to negotiate at a garage sale-5 tips that will save you tons of money!
It's nearly garage sale season and one of the questions I always get asked is how do you negotiate.
I shared a few tips and tricks on this post last year, but I think it's time to revisit them so that we all can be prepared as we head out and hit the sales!
1. Know what you are dealing with
2. Bundle and save
3. Add up your items with the seller
4. Be willing to walk away
5. Start your negotiating low so you have wiggle room

Friday, March 21, 2014
How you can save money at the dentist and give your kids some independence and control
I try not to, but sometimes in parenting I am a bit of a control freak.
I know that there are things that my kids are capable of,
{making their beds, helping out with the household chores, brushing their own teeth}
but because I know I can do it better and usually faster,
I just like to just do it myself.
When my oldest son was 8, we finally handed over the reigns and let him be in charge of brushing his own teeth. Yep, he was 8. Control much?!
After 6 months of him brushing his own teeth, we had a dentist appointment and guess what?
The outcome was exactly how I thought that it would be.
He sucked at brushing and ended up with 4 cavities!
I knew I couldn't be that mom that went to college with her son showing up every night and in the morning to brush his teeth, so I had to come up with a plan.
Spending hundreds of dollars on filling cavities every six months just wasn't cutting it for me
{multiply that by three kids and it would really be nasty}
so we decided to invest in a Philips Sonicare toothbrush.
For less than the cost to fill a single cavity, we could invest in a Sonicare toothbrush and create a lifetime of healthy oral care habits.
I'm sure you have seen Philips Sonicare toothbrushes at your dentist office.
I had for years.
In fact, 91% of dental professional parents prefer Philips Sonicare for kids for their own children.
We have been using Sonicare toothbrushes for all three kids for the past four years and can I tell you something?
They have been cavity free ever since our switch!
As a parent, we all know how important it is to create independence in our children.
We know that our kids are capable and able to do so much more than we sometimes let them.
Check out this infographic on how we as parents can help navigate the independence balancing act.
I honestly can't tell you how much peace of mind I get from handing over my controlling ways and letting my kids take on the independence of brushing with their sonicare toothbrush.
The new Philips Sonicare for kids is a rechargeable electric toothbrush for kids 4+ from a name we all trust.
It not only encourages healthy brushing habits
{even when kids are doing it on their own}
but it's fun to use with customizable stickers and educational features like a kidpacer
{to encourage kids to brush the "zones"}
and kidtimer
{a built in two minute timer that trains kids to brush for the dentist recommended time}.
My youngest son was excited to receive a Philips Sonicare for kids toothbrush in the mail.
He loved picking out the sticker to make his toothbrush different from his sister and brother's toothbrush.
He immediately ran upstairs and got to brushing!
The KidPacer has fun sounds every 30 seconds that encourage kids to switch from the upper, lower, front and back of their teeth.
This enables kids to get each of their teeth during the two minute dentist recommended brushing time.
Once the two minutes are up, the toothbrush turns itself off.
If using an electric toothbrush is new for your kids, there is a slow start to work up to the two minutes.
Simply switch the button on the bottom of the handle.
The first time my kids used their Sonicare toothbrushes they giggled because it does tickle their teeth until they are used to it.
All done!
Three kids, three Sonicare toothbrushes.

Monday, February 24, 2014
Saving money on contact lenses-shop around and save hundreds of dollars! Not a sponsored post!

Friday, March 15, 2013
Junkin' in Seattle
I have heard of the Goodwill Outlet but sort of boycotted it because to me, it sounds like a bit of an oxymoron.

The Goodwill outlet is the final stop for all of the items donated at the local Goodwill stores before heading to the dump. Most of the items are sold by the pound and are deeply discounted from the normal {expensive} Goodwill prices. You can see my post here about how I think Goodwill is too expensive.
You enter into a warehouse building like this and find hoards of people.
Rows of blue bins are rolled in filled to the brim with clothing, toys, and household items.
People quickly gather around the newest rolling carts and dig.
There is a little bit of organization to the madness.
Everyone waits behind a blue line until all of the new carts are in place.
Then once they wheel in the final cart, everyone starts digging.
I may have gotten yelled at more than once for not being aware of how this system works.
Now you know.
Bring a pair of gloves or better yet, your haz mat suit.
You will leave feeling like bugs are crawling all over you.
The Goodwill outlet has it's own security...and it needs it.
A fight nearly broke out within the first five minutes of us being there because someone was upset that someone else threw the clothes they were sorting too aggressively across the blue bins.
Yep, that really happened.
And we were told by other Goodwill outlet customers who are frequent shoppers that that happens a lot.
It's like prison.
Keep your head down and mind your own business.

I wasn't on a search for clothes on this trip but I was curious to see why all the people flock to the clothing bins. I really didn't come away with any answers. I'm sure there are finds to be had, but every single pair of pants that I found had holes in the crotch.
I'm not joking.
Every.single.pair.
I did also spend some time searching for shoes.
There were a few pairs that had potential, but only if you had one foot.
Pairs were hard to come by.
Finding a pair of shoes was like searching for a needle in a hay stack.
So, I gave up.
If you are a one legged individual who doesn't care if you have a crotch in your pants, then the Goodwill outlet is your place to shop!
This is my basket filled with my goodies.
The clothes that I did find were found on the top of the piles.
Rejects that people no longer wanted in their own carts.
I picked up a coat for my son and a zip up jacket for my dad.
I also found some fantastic fabric samples, a large rug, a duvet cover, and an old suitcase.
I'm sure there were other fun finds in there.
Grand total for all of this...$19.

I found that the prices for items seemed to be set by each cashier.
Especially those items not sold by the pound.
Mandi got this basket of goodies for about the same price as all of my stuff.
Pretty sure she got a better deal.
I would definitely head back to the Goodwill Outlet for another shopping experience.
I learned a thing or two and feel like a real expert.
I probably wouldn't go by myself though.
And I would never go without gloves.
The next stop Mandi and I made was just down the road at a shop called Second Use.
Second Use is a salvage store that is slightly cheaper than Earthwise, but not cheap like a garage sale.
There were some finds to be had {especially in the free pile}.
Mandi picked up this half door {soon to be table} and two window frames for $5 each.
There were a lot of things that were eye candy.
This green scale is fantabulous isn't it?
You know how I love old windows.
My new window passion is leaded glass.
Hard to find, but amazing when you do.
If you need a door, Second Use is the place.
There were rows and rows of old doors.
Barn doors, front doors, screen doors, you name it.
I'm a sucker for old machines.
Isn't this buffet beautiful?
It looks like it was an old built in in a turn of the century house.
Image the parties it has seen!
Industrial is awesome.
This was probably my favorite piece of the whole day.
It is so much better in person.
Wouldn't it be an awesome upper cabinet if you were re doing a kitchen?
Mandi was loving this as a store front check out area.
Did you know my favorite store, Persnickety's Awesomeness Emporium is moving to downtown Sumner?
It's a big deal.
Aren't these handles super rad?
Need a knob or a hinge?
Perhaps an old school house pendant?
Not sure what you would do with an old radiator.
So many people have been hiding them for years.
It's time to embrace them as a decorative element.
Love the design on this one.
We had so much fun junkin' in Seattle.
Do you have a favorite place to score old junk or an experience with the Goodwill Outlet?
I would love to hear from you!
I'm sure there are stories to be told!

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